Sunday 10 May 2015

Farewell to a Great Man

Opa,

I will forever cherish your memory. You left this life for the promise of a better world and I am comforted by that,

When we were introduced you welcomed me with open arms. You were genuinely curious about me and listened to my stories. I know you had reservations about my lack of faith, but that never prevented us from becoming fast friends.

At family functions; especially in the early years of my relationship with Jason, you always found a way to sit with me and talk to me about your faith and about God. I used to refer to this jokingly as being "Opa-blocked". It took me years to realize that being "Opa-blocked" was the highest possible compliment and blessing.

We had so much time together; just you and me, in the midst of crazy family gatherings and I learned so much about you. You taught me about God, your devotion to Him, and how valuable that relationship is. I know you didn't "Opa-block" me to scare me away, or to force your ideas on me, instead you were taking me into your heart and teaching me the most important things to you.

You never laughed at my ignorance of religion, but marveled in my curiosity. You helped teach me about my future family and took me under your wing when I had questions. I'm sure the rest of the family didn't get it, or thought I wasn't really paying attention, and they don't need to get it, because I did and I love you for it.

I loved being "Opa-blocked" and I will miss you forever,

-Brandy

When you have time to look in on us, I hope you will be proud. I love you.